I was recently reminded of one of my favorite quotes, below:
"You rarely have time for everything you want in this life, so you need to make choices. And hopefully your choices can come from a deep sense of who you are."
--Fred Rogers......Yes, that Fred Rogers ;-)
So many people have such strong opinions these days about what choices women should make with their lives, such as: delay marriage or having children or combine work or secondary education and raising children or what number of children to have or how to mother one's children or how to be involved in grown children's and young grand children's lives.
In contrast to a cacophony of biased voices ringing shrill and loud, I find this quote refreshingly clear and quiet, as it came from a man who did not say this with women's choices in mind nor sought to force his ideas on anyone.
When I read this, I am impressed that choosing what to do with one's time or life goals is a human question, not just a "man" or "woman" or "Mom" question. And, I have found, it is just a true statement.
In a way, it simplifies the decision, for me, of the kind of person I want to be now and where I choose to prioritize my focus and effort as a woman, wife, and mother: my home and family, mainly, and, in keeping with the current needs of my young family, my community.
There has never been a greater need for stronger homes and families and mothers are central to these.
I have been listening to the Mormon Channel, as well, for added insight and inspiration on this topic. Link, here:
"A Mothers Influence".
Does this quotation spark any ideas for you,
with your own unique circumstances and gifts in mind?
What quotes inspire you?